From the monthly archives: October 2008

How Do You Deal With Your Successes and Failures?

By On October 14, 2008 · Leave a Comment

How do you deal with your successes and failures?  I’ve met some people who are just as afraid of being successful (maybe more so) than they are of failing.  Why do these two things give us so much grief?

We use them in a non-productive manner.  We don’t use them for what they really are:

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Details or the big picture which is best?

By On October 10, 2008 · Leave a Comment

In my current coaching program students are creating their vision of where they are headed in their lives.  Creating your vision all too often is stressful.  It is such a shame because what creating your visions “ought” to be is fun and exciting.  It is, after all, the map of [...]

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How many times does someone stand you up?

By On October 7, 2008 · Leave a Comment

A coaching client of mine emailed me this morning and asked how to cancel a standing coaching appointment with one of her downline without totally souring the relationship.  This person in her downline has never made an appointment and has rescheduled four times (she says she has the appointment in her calendar but “forgets [...]

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